6 year old baby with her 4 year old brother bus expert another spoil things by excessive enthusiasm yvette yates

6 year old baby with her 4 year old brother bus expert: another bus to go out alone spoil things by excessive enthusiasm of the two brothers Chongqing daily chart with "Mathematical Olympiad", "English textual research" the gradual cooling ability more and more parents begin to pay attention to the scores, more mother said in the opposite direction, determined not to let the children in class outside the class, the children must be early into the society, study hard…… But when mothers have boasted about their children’s independence, whether to observe the heart, the child’s independence is the original intention? And let the children early independence, is another kind of spoil things by excessive enthusiasm? The media reported the news that a day more than 7 in the evening, in Chongqing, a bus, a 6 year old child with a child of 4 years old, and no adult. Bus staff did not dare to put the child to the dispatch room. Instead, the child is very calm, clearly told the staff, this is the fourth time he took his brother to take the bus, parents know. The child’s father then came to confirm the child’s statement, saying he was to exercise the child’s independence". Now there is a kind of "education method" gradually popular, cultivate children’s independence as early as possible. More young parents feel the only child "weak character" and "dependent" problems, hope the child exercise ability and quality, especially guard against the tendency itself and the elderly "spoiled, pampered". With the "Mathematical Olympiad", "English textual research" the gradual cooling ability more and more parents begin to pay attention to the scores, more mothers in the opposite direction, said determined not to let the children in class class, especially respected independent education, education of hardship, think this is the only way which must be passed of elite training. Every time the parents proudly declared, "my child was born on their own sleep", "my family to learn from the children do not have to shuttle", often get other parents envious eyes. But is it really good? Lack of love of children, but also can not give others love Rui Rui mother believes in scientific feeding, never spoil children. Rui is 10 years old, almost from birth, she used a variety of methods to train her independence. Ruirui in infancy is alone in a bed, a small room; when hungry to drink milk, to want to buy a doll, to implement the "delay", no pleasure given; the primary school is grade one or two, Ruirui will cross the road to the small supermarket to home "soy sauce, learn from their own home – school is not near, have to transfer buses; a summer vacation is to Ruirui to participate in various training camps, or alone back to their villages, almost all day at home…… Gradually, with the growth of the age, Rui Rui at home also more and more can’t stay. A holiday to go out to play, once at home bored, as if unable to arrange every day. At the same time, the holiday, and mother together becomes more difficult, easy to quarrel conflict; go out together, Ruirui said: even if I a person at home do not go out with you! One summer evening, mom wants to walk with her daughter, Ruirui Ao however repeatedly invited mother, had to get up, but the way of wearing headset to listen to music, walk in the two or three meters in front of the mother, always keep"相关的主题文章: